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How would you respond? Talking to students about respect

A new creative writing and illustration competition for students aged 10 to 14 encourages them to consider what respect means, have the opportunity to be published, and have a chance to win a $500 gift card for their school library. But how should teachers start conversations with their students about respect?

<p><em>&OpenCurlyQuote;Girls in the home corner&comma; boys outside&period;’<&sol;em><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><em>&OpenCurlyQuote;I need a strong boy to help me carry this&period;’<&sol;em><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Have you ever heard someone say these things&quest; Perhaps you might have said them in the classroom&period; While these statements may seem innocent enough&comma; sexism starts with stereotyping around gender&period; Treating boys and girls differently is pervasive and often left unchallenged&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><em>&OpenCurlyQuote;Girls can’t play soccer&period;’<&sol;em><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><em>&OpenCurlyQuote;You throw like a girl&period;’<&sol;em><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><em>&OpenCurlyQuote;Boys will be boys&period;’<&sol;em><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Would you call out a student or a fellow teacher who makes a comment like this&quest; How would you start the conversation around why these statements are problematic&quest;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><em>&OpenCurlyQuote;What do you expect wearing that skirt&quest;’<&sol;em><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><em>&OpenCurlyQuote;I was just having fun&period; Don’t be so sensitive&period;’<&sol;em><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><em>&OpenCurlyQuote;What did you do to provoke him&quest;’<&sol;em><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>If one of your students heard one of these statements&comma; how would you expect them to react&quest; How would you want them to react&quest;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Respect for women starts at the beginning&comma; with seemingly small comments that can escalate over time&period; Unfortunately&comma; most people don’t get involved when they see or hear men make disrespectful comments to or about women&period; A new government campaign &OpenCurlyQuote;Stop it at the Start’ aims to break the cycle of violence by encouraging young people to think about respect and their attitudes towards women&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Schools are being asked to get involved by encouraging students ages 10 to 14 to write a short story&comma; poem or essay&comma; fiction or non-fiction up to 1&comma;000 words or draw an illustration that shows what respect means to them&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Assistant Minister for Social Services&comma; The Hon Justine Elliot MP said&colon; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;We&&num;8217&semi;ve all got a role to play in influencing how young people understand respectful relationships&period; We need to raise awareness about having respectful conversations and how we treat one another&period; I encourage young people to think about what respect means&comma; and please enter the competition&period;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Ten winners &lpar;8 written and 2 illustrations&rpar; will each take home a &dollar;500 VISA gift card for themselves and another &dollar;500 VISA gift card for their school library&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Knowing how to start the conversation around respect can be difficult&comma; and there are <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;respect&period;gov&period;au&sol;resources&sol;talking-about-respect&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">plenty of free resources available for teachers and parents<&sol;a> that offer practical tips on talking to young people about how disrespect can lead to violence&comma; the excuses we need to stop making and the behaviours we need to stop accepting from an early age&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The competition will be judged by <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;maggiedent&period;com&sol;blog&sol;please-teach-your-sons-about-the-line-in-the-sand&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">parenting expert Maggie Dent<&sol;a> and author and presenter Jo Stanley and the ten winners will also have their stories and illustrations published in an anthology&comma; which is a fantastic opportunity for budding writers and illustrators&period; The book will be downloadable as well as have a small print run&period; <&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Entries for Respect Stories are now open and close on Sunday 14th August 2022&period; <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;respect&period;gov&period;au&sol;respectstories&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">Learn more about the competition here&period;<&sol;a><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;respect&period;gov&period;au&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2022&sol;07&sol;respect-stories-competiton-faq&lowbar;1-1&period;pdf" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">Read the FAQ and find out how to enter here&period;<&sol;a> <&sol;p>&NewLine;<div style&equals;"width&colon; 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Shannon Meyerkort

Shannon Meyerkort is a freelance writer and the author of "Brilliant Minds: 30 Dyslexic Heroes Who Changed our World", now available in all good bookstores.

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