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Combatting online bullying is different for girls and boys: here’s why

<h2>Demands for improving online safety <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;theaustralian&period;com&period;au&sol;national-affairs&sol;bullying-must-stop-turnbull-grieves-for-dolly-everett&sol;news-story&sol;ebbb86e838e1ef882ab82fac686bb531">continue to capture headlines&comma; often for the worst reasons&period;<&sol;a>&period; While this outcry has signalled renewed interest in <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;brisbanetimes&period;com&period;au&sol;lifestyle&sol;life-and-relationships&sol;premier-stands-up-to-bullies-as-queensland-kids-prepare-for-school-return-20180121-p4yyoe&period;html">&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;stamping out” cyberbullying<&sol;a> and <a href&equals;"http&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;dailymail&period;co&period;uk&sol;wires&sol;aap&sol;article-5244105&sol;Government-gives-mental-health-110m-boost&period;html">reinvigorated health and wellbeing protocols<&sol;a> for young people&comma; interventions continue to fall behind the fast-paced development of communication devices and <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;acma&period;gov&period;au&sol;theACMA&sol;engage-blogs&sol;engage-blogs&sol;Research-snapshots&sol;Aussie-teens-and-kids-online">the take-up of new social media by teenagers<&sol;a>&period;<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>The focus on gender in &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;next step” interventions is noticeably absent&period; Intervention protocols have viewed teenage girls’ and boys’ online interaction as more or less the same&period; This is a mistake&period; <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;teensafe&period;com&sol;blog&sol;facts-cyberbullying-teen-girls-worst&sol;">Teenage girls<&sol;a>&comma; especially those aged 12 to 14&comma; are more likely than any other demographic to <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;unisa&period;edu&period;au&sol;Global&sol;EASS&sol;EDS&sol;184856&percnt;20Anti-bullying&percnt;20Report-FINAL-3large&period;pdf">experience cyberbullying&comma; and anxiety and depression<&sol;a> after bullying episodes&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>A greater focus on the friendship practices of teenage girls offers possibilities for developing new strategies for reducing <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;theconversation&period;com&sol;how-cyberbullies-overtly-and-covertly-target-their-victims-90448">cyberbullying<&sol;a>among friends&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h2>Intervention should be tailored<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>Online participation <a href&equals;"http&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;pewinternet&period;org&sol;2015&sol;04&sol;09&sol;teens-social-media-technology-2015&sol;">differs significantly<&sol;a> for girls and boys&period; They spend similar amounts of time online and both use technology to search for information&comma; interact with others&comma; and play games&period; But girls spend more time socialising with friends&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Girls’ online friendships are more visually-oriented than boys&period; They use social media to post and <a href&equals;"http&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;smh&period;com&period;au&sol;good-weekend&sol;how-social-media-has-changed-everything-for-teenage-girls-20170118-gttl9x&period;html">curate personal images<&sol;a>&comma; share stories and experiences&comma; seek advice on private matters and appearance&comma; and <a href&equals;"http&colon;&sol;&sol;journal&period;acce&period;edu&period;au&sol;index&period;php&sol;AEC&sol;article&sol;view&sol;118">plan and organise social events<&sol;a>&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>These practices place teenage girls at risk for <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;acma&period;gov&period;au&sol;-&sol;media&sol;mediacomms&sol;Report&sol;pdf&sol;Like-post-share-Young-Australians-experiences-of-social-media-Qualitative-research-report&period;pdf&quest;la&equals;en">problems associated with bullying<&sol;a> such as gossip&comma; name-calling&comma; spreading rumours&comma; <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;doi&period;org&sol;10&period;1016&sol;j&period;chb&period;2015&period;10&period;003">coercion<&sol;a>&comma; and <a href&equals;"http&colon;&sol;&sol;journals&period;sagepub&period;com&sol;doi&sol;abs&sol;10&period;1177&sol;1464700113499853">shaming<&sol;a>&period; Unfortunately for girls&comma; online friendships are often filled with the not-always-nice voices of other girls&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<figure class&equals;"align-center "><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;images&period;theconversation&period;com&sol;files&sol;207205&sol;original&sol;file-20180221-161920-l896bq&period;jpg&quest;ixlib&equals;rb-1&period;1&period;0&amp&semi;q&equals;45&amp&semi;auto&equals;format&amp&semi;w&equals;754&amp&semi;fit&equals;clip" alt&equals;"" &sol;><figcaption><span class&equals;"caption">Negative voices are far too common for young girls online&period;<&sol;span> <span class&equals;"attribution"><a class&equals;"source" href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;shutterstock&period;com&sol;image-photo&sol;teenage-girl-victim-bullying-by-text-384225016&quest;src&equals;GesUpvRFAoe9fWqsiLmbBw-1-6">Shutterstock<&sol;a><&sol;span><&sol;figcaption><&sol;figure>&NewLine;<p>While current interventions offer <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;esafety&period;gov&period;au&sol;esafety-information">broad protocols<&sol;a> for children and young people&comma; specific guidelines for teenage girls are missing&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h2>Girls’ experiences online<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>A recent study offers insight into girls’ interactions online&period; <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;experts&period;griffith&period;edu&period;au&sol;publication&sol;n9728776073243a0984664f3c446fbe60">The study<&sol;a>was conducted in two stages&period; In stage one&comma; 130 year eight girls from Queensland were asked to complete an online survey&period; The survey asked the girls questions about their online practices&comma; providing several opportunities for them to talk about their online strategies with friends&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>From the original group&comma; 16 of the girls participated in online focus groups&period; Here&comma; the girls watched videos and looked at pictures showing teenage girls experiencing online problems&period; They discussed the episodes at length&comma; then shared their ideas and experiences in a private journal&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The online strategies and problems discussed by the girls were considered in two ways&period; First&comma; online friendship practices were compared to established cybersafety protocols&period; Second&comma; focus group exchanges and shared stories were <a href&equals;"http&colon;&sol;&sol;thecomposingrooms&period;com&sol;research&sol;reading&sol;2014&sol;goffman&lowbar;intro&period;pdf">analysed for examples<&sol;a> of what they do online&comma; how they speak to each other&comma; how they manage their online presence&comma; and how they steer clear of online troubles&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>These girls adapted online privacy rules and created in-group strategies to build and strengthen friendship connections&period; While they &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;wanted to feel safe”&comma; they also wanted friends to see &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;their stuff”&colon;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote>&NewLine;<p>I make up a name and tell my friends so they can look at my profile&period; I trust my friends to keep my stuff private&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<p>The girls talked to friends about online troubles&colon;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote>&NewLine;<p>I go to my friends with all my problems&comma; especially online ones&period; I don’t get advice from mum because she is quite old fashioned and doesn’t understand our ideas and humour&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<p>They did not block or report friends unless problems became critical&colon;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote>&NewLine;<p>I try to work it out with someone face-to-face if they’re mean to me before blocking them&comma; unless they are threatening me&comma; then I tell a parent&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<p>They described friends’ bad behaviour as mean or &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;bitchy”&comma; not as bullying&period; Naming events in this way minimised adult intervention and gave them authority to deal with problems themselves&colon;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote>&NewLine;<p>They were rumouring about me and I felt really angry but my friends helped me to ignore it&period; That’s what most girls do cos doing something makes it worse&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<h2>Competing efforts<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>For these girls&comma; online friendship had a social currency that challenged safety protocols&period; In their determination to uphold friendship ties&comma; they sidestepped privacy settings&comma; used special codes and symbols&comma; and created secret languages to open pathways for more intimate sharing&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<figure class&equals;"align-center "><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;images&period;theconversation&period;com&sol;files&sol;207210&sol;original&sol;file-20180221-161917-1ka5mxo&period;jpg&quest;ixlib&equals;rb-1&period;1&period;0&amp&semi;q&equals;45&amp&semi;auto&equals;format&amp&semi;w&equals;754&amp&semi;fit&equals;clip" alt&equals;"" &sol;><figcaption><span class&equals;"caption">caption&period;<&sol;span> <span class&equals;"attribution"><span class&equals;"source">Shutterstock<&sol;span><&sol;span><&sol;figcaption><&sol;figure>&NewLine;<p>In times of trouble&comma; they went to friends&comma; seeking adult assistance only when things got &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;really nasty and horrible”&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>They did not use bullying language to describe their difficulties&period; Instead&comma; they used words with less authority or consequence&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Girls’ friendship practices were clearly out of sync with adult efforts to keep them safe&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h2>Reframing intervention<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>Current cybersafety interventions need to be changed to help teenage girls safely negotiate friendships online&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Sophisticated strategies for sharing intimate information with friends such as using language and symbols with less obvious meaning is a good starting point&period; Establishing girl-friendly reporting schemes is urgent&period; Encouraging the use of self-help resources designed by girls&comma; such as informational websites&comma; safety checklists and social media apps&comma; is critical&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Efforts to recognise the focus of gender in safety narratives is very important&period; Ideas&comma; routines&comma; and discourses shaping cybersafety policy need to tell the gender story&period; One that changes the signs of danger for both girls and boys&comma; probes issues from different angles&comma; and addresses ingrained assumptions about bullying behaviour&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><img class&equals;"alignleft size-full wp-image-5426" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;school-news&period;com&period;au&sol;wp-content&sol;uploads&sol;2016&sol;10&sol;creative-commons&period;png" alt&equals;"creative-commons" width&equals;"88" height&equals;"31" &sol;>This article was written by <span class&equals;"fn author-name">Roberta Thompson&comma; <&sol;span>PostDoc Research Fellow investigating teenage girls&&num;8217&semi; social media practice&period;&comma; Griffith University&period; The piece first appeared on <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;theconversation&period;com&sol;combatting-online-bullying-is-different-for-girls-and-boys-heres-why-91837"><em>The Conversation&period;<&sol;em><&sol;a><&sol;p>&NewLine;

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