‘Got no friends? Sit on the buddy bench.’ Untested anti-bullying programs may be missing the mark

<p>Around <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;journals&period;sagepub&period;com&sol;doi&sol;full&sol;10&period;1177&sol;0004867419846393">15&percnt; of Australian school students<&sol;a> experience bullying in a school year&period; Being bullied increases <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;cambridge&period;org&sol;core&sol;journals&sol;epidemiology-and-psychiatric-sciences&sol;article&sol;contribution-of-bullying-victimisation-to-the-burden-of-anxiety-and-depressive-disorders-in-australia&sol;F1AB0B73B69593EE97711DD8C7A2CF18">the risk for ongoing depression and anxiety<&sol;a>&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>All <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;bullyingnoway&period;gov&period;au&sol;responding-to-bullying&sol;legislation-and-policy">Australian states have policies<&sol;a> to address school bullying&period; And many schools also run <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;bullyingnoway&period;gov&period;au&sol;resources">educational programs<&sol;a> aimed at preventing bullying&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Efforts to reduce bullying are commendable&period; However&comma; schools need to be aware of the possibility some bullying programs <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;srcd&period;onlinelibrary&period;wiley&period;com&sol;doi&sol;abs&sol;10&period;1111&sol;cdep&period;12385">may inadvertently harm victims<&sol;a>&period; One example is the &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;buddy bench”&comma; where students who have few friends or are bullied can come to sit and be supported by peers&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>While the idea is nice in theory&comma; it could have some very negative effects&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h2>How do programs affect victims&quest;<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>School programs to reduce bullying are often based on theory&period; Very few of the programs offered to Australian schools <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;beyou&period;edu&period;au&sol;resources&sol;programs-directory">have been scientifically evaluated<&sol;a> for effectiveness&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>International research shows bullying prevention programs can reduce victimisation at <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;sciencedirect&period;com&sol;science&sol;article&sol;pii&sol;S0022440520300753">school level by up to 16&percnt;<&sol;a>&period; But programs that reduce whole-school bullying may still <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;srcd&period;onlinelibrary&period;wiley&period;com&sol;doi&sol;full&sol;10&period;1111&sol;cdep&period;12331">lead to worse outcomes for individual victims<&sol;a>&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>KiVa is a Finnish program <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;kivaprogram&period;net&sol;kiva-around-the-world&sol;">used in many countries<&sol;a>&period; Like many Australian programs&comma; <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;psycnet&period;apa&period;org&sol;record&sol;2012-28537-001">KiVa<&sol;a> provides teachers with lessons and activities to teach students how to relate to each other&comma; including how to help if they notice bullying&period; There is also training for teachers and newsletters for parents&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>KiVa has been found to <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;srcd&period;onlinelibrary&period;wiley&period;com&sol;doi&sol;full&sol;10&period;1111&sol;j&period;1467-8624&period;2010&period;01557&period;x&quest;casa&lowbar;token&equals;yxMVE1JLt-UAAAAA&percnt;3A&lowbar;OYpSy5DK3WmlO8MfCfpf7D2xVXzFlFFsE&lowbar;9&lowbar;KISgGE5fakrXGuNbbNAMMTG-orvKPSSrFk6FKOvpdU">reduce bullying at the school level<&sol;a> in primary schools&period; But a Dutch study compared schools that had adopted KiVa with schools that worked off their usual bullying policies &lpar;the control group&rpar;&period; Researchers found schools with the program in place did reduce bullying overall&period; But the kids in those schools who remained bullied&comma; or became new victims of bullying&comma; <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;link&period;springer&period;com&sol;article&sol;10&period;1007&sol;s10826-018-1194-1">were more depressed and had lower self-esteem<&sol;a> compared to bullying victims in the control schools&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<figure class&equals;"align-center zoomable"><a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;images&period;theconversation&period;com&sol;files&sol;390251&sol;original&sol;file-20210318-13-1og8obj&period;jpg&quest;ixlib&equals;rb-1&period;1&period;0&amp&semi;q&equals;45&amp&semi;auto&equals;format&amp&semi;w&equals;1000&amp&semi;fit&equals;clip"><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;images&period;theconversation&period;com&sol;files&sol;390251&sol;original&sol;file-20210318-13-1og8obj&period;jpg&quest;ixlib&equals;rb-1&period;1&period;0&amp&semi;q&equals;45&amp&semi;auto&equals;format&amp&semi;w&equals;754&amp&semi;fit&equals;clip" sizes&equals;"&lpar;min-width&colon; 1466px&rpar; 754px&comma; &lpar;max-width&colon; 599px&rpar; 100vw&comma; &lpar;min-width&colon; 600px&rpar; 600px&comma; 237px" srcset&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;images&period;theconversation&period;com&sol;files&sol;390251&sol;original&sol;file-20210318-13-1og8obj&period;jpg&quest;ixlib&equals;rb-1&period;1&period;0&amp&semi;q&equals;45&amp&semi;auto&equals;format&amp&semi;w&equals;600&amp&semi;h&equals;400&amp&semi;fit&equals;crop&amp&semi;dpr&equals;1 600w&comma; https&colon;&sol;&sol;images&period;theconversation&period;com&sol;files&sol;390251&sol;original&sol;file-20210318-13-1og8obj&period;jpg&quest;ixlib&equals;rb-1&period;1&period;0&amp&semi;q&equals;30&amp&semi;auto&equals;format&amp&semi;w&equals;600&amp&semi;h&equals;400&amp&semi;fit&equals;crop&amp&semi;dpr&equals;2 1200w&comma; https&colon;&sol;&sol;images&period;theconversation&period;com&sol;files&sol;390251&sol;original&sol;file-20210318-13-1og8obj&period;jpg&quest;ixlib&equals;rb-1&period;1&period;0&amp&semi;q&equals;15&amp&semi;auto&equals;format&amp&semi;w&equals;600&amp&semi;h&equals;400&amp&semi;fit&equals;crop&amp&semi;dpr&equals;3 1800w&comma; https&colon;&sol;&sol;images&period;theconversation&period;com&sol;files&sol;390251&sol;original&sol;file-20210318-13-1og8obj&period;jpg&quest;ixlib&equals;rb-1&period;1&period;0&amp&semi;q&equals;45&amp&semi;auto&equals;format&amp&semi;w&equals;754&amp&semi;h&equals;503&amp&semi;fit&equals;crop&amp&semi;dpr&equals;1 754w&comma; https&colon;&sol;&sol;images&period;theconversation&period;com&sol;files&sol;390251&sol;original&sol;file-20210318-13-1og8obj&period;jpg&quest;ixlib&equals;rb-1&period;1&period;0&amp&semi;q&equals;30&amp&semi;auto&equals;format&amp&semi;w&equals;754&amp&semi;h&equals;503&amp&semi;fit&equals;crop&amp&semi;dpr&equals;2 1508w&comma; https&colon;&sol;&sol;images&period;theconversation&period;com&sol;files&sol;390251&sol;original&sol;file-20210318-13-1og8obj&period;jpg&quest;ixlib&equals;rb-1&period;1&period;0&amp&semi;q&equals;15&amp&semi;auto&equals;format&amp&semi;w&equals;754&amp&semi;h&equals;503&amp&semi;fit&equals;crop&amp&semi;dpr&equals;3 2262w" alt&equals;"Sad schoolboy sitting on the ground with head in hands&period;" &sol;><&sol;a><figcaption><span class&equals;"caption">Students can be further stigmatised if their issues with peers are made apparent&period;<&sol;span> <span class&equals;"attribution"><a class&equals;"source" href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;shutterstock&period;com&sol;image-photo&sol;sad-schoolboy-sitting-alone-corridor-school-448288669">Shutterstock<&sol;a><&sol;span><&sol;figcaption><&sol;figure>&NewLine;<p>Researchers theorised that if fewer students were bullied&comma; those who remained bullied were <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;link&period;springer&period;com&sol;article&sol;10&period;1007&sol;s10826-018-1194-1">more visible to peers&comma; leading to rejection<&sol;a>&period; This same theory suggests <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;srcd&period;onlinelibrary&period;wiley&period;com&sol;doi&sol;abs&sol;10&period;1111&sol;cdep&period;12385">elements in school programs that make a student’s victim status more visible to peers<&sol;a> can also lead to increased stigmatisation&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h2>Buddy benches<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>Many schools in Australia have installed <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;buddybenchaustralia&period;com&period;au&sol;">buddy benches<&sol;a>&comma; or friendship benches&period; These playground benches are intended to provide a safe place in the playground where a <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;bbc&period;com&sol;news&sol;av&sol;stories-46385101">student can go when bullied<&sol;a> or when they have no one to play with&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The idea is that other children or teachers will notice the student on the bench and offer assistance&period; Despite the positive intent&comma; there is no evidence this approach works&comma; and there are many things that could go wrong&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The colourful bench will effectively highlight those students who have problems getting on with peers&period; Students will notice who is at the bench most often&comma; and who is left waiting the longest&period; They will notice which students require teachers’ help due to lack of peer interest&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Increased visibility of these students’ difficulties could damage their peer status and make them <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;sciencedirect&period;com&sol;science&sol;article&sol;abs&sol;pii&sol;S0022096512000823">less attractive for real friendships<&sol;a>&comma; which would serve to <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;link&period;springer&period;com&sol;article&sol;10&period;1007&sol;s10578-018-0793-9">protect them from bullying<&sol;a>&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The bench could also signal vulnerability to a broader group of students who bully but had not previously noticed these kids&comma; such as if they didn’t share classes&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>There are other problems&comma; such as if children come to the aid of someone sitting at the bench to impress teachers or because they have been told to&period; This is not necessarily the same as help that comes through genuine care and friendship&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<figure class&equals;"align-center zoomable"><a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;images&period;theconversation&period;com&sol;files&sol;390249&sol;original&sol;file-20210318-23-1sqk5b4&period;jpg&quest;ixlib&equals;rb-1&period;1&period;0&amp&semi;q&equals;45&amp&semi;auto&equals;format&amp&semi;w&equals;1000&amp&semi;fit&equals;clip"><img src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;images&period;theconversation&period;com&sol;files&sol;390249&sol;original&sol;file-20210318-23-1sqk5b4&period;jpg&quest;ixlib&equals;rb-1&period;1&period;0&amp&semi;q&equals;45&amp&semi;auto&equals;format&amp&semi;w&equals;754&amp&semi;fit&equals;clip" sizes&equals;"&lpar;min-width&colon; 1466px&rpar; 754px&comma; &lpar;max-width&colon; 599px&rpar; 100vw&comma; &lpar;min-width&colon; 600px&rpar; 600px&comma; 237px" srcset&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;images&period;theconversation&period;com&sol;files&sol;390249&sol;original&sol;file-20210318-23-1sqk5b4&period;jpg&quest;ixlib&equals;rb-1&period;1&period;0&amp&semi;q&equals;45&amp&semi;auto&equals;format&amp&semi;w&equals;600&amp&semi;h&equals;400&amp&semi;fit&equals;crop&amp&semi;dpr&equals;1 600w&comma; https&colon;&sol;&sol;images&period;theconversation&period;com&sol;files&sol;390249&sol;original&sol;file-20210318-23-1sqk5b4&period;jpg&quest;ixlib&equals;rb-1&period;1&period;0&amp&semi;q&equals;30&amp&semi;auto&equals;format&amp&semi;w&equals;600&amp&semi;h&equals;400&amp&semi;fit&equals;crop&amp&semi;dpr&equals;2 1200w&comma; https&colon;&sol;&sol;images&period;theconversation&period;com&sol;files&sol;390249&sol;original&sol;file-20210318-23-1sqk5b4&period;jpg&quest;ixlib&equals;rb-1&period;1&period;0&amp&semi;q&equals;15&amp&semi;auto&equals;format&amp&semi;w&equals;600&amp&semi;h&equals;400&amp&semi;fit&equals;crop&amp&semi;dpr&equals;3 1800w&comma; https&colon;&sol;&sol;images&period;theconversation&period;com&sol;files&sol;390249&sol;original&sol;file-20210318-23-1sqk5b4&period;jpg&quest;ixlib&equals;rb-1&period;1&period;0&amp&semi;q&equals;45&amp&semi;auto&equals;format&amp&semi;w&equals;754&amp&semi;h&equals;503&amp&semi;fit&equals;crop&amp&semi;dpr&equals;1 754w&comma; https&colon;&sol;&sol;images&period;theconversation&period;com&sol;files&sol;390249&sol;original&sol;file-20210318-23-1sqk5b4&period;jpg&quest;ixlib&equals;rb-1&period;1&period;0&amp&semi;q&equals;30&amp&semi;auto&equals;format&amp&semi;w&equals;754&amp&semi;h&equals;503&amp&semi;fit&equals;crop&amp&semi;dpr&equals;2 1508w&comma; https&colon;&sol;&sol;images&period;theconversation&period;com&sol;files&sol;390249&sol;original&sol;file-20210318-23-1sqk5b4&period;jpg&quest;ixlib&equals;rb-1&period;1&period;0&amp&semi;q&equals;15&amp&semi;auto&equals;format&amp&semi;w&equals;754&amp&semi;h&equals;503&amp&semi;fit&equals;crop&amp&semi;dpr&equals;3 2262w" alt&equals;"Kids playing jump rope with teacher watching&period;" &sol;><&sol;a><figcaption><span class&equals;"caption">Helping a peer to impress a teacher isn’t the same as genuine care and friendship&period;<&sol;span> <span class&equals;"attribution"><a class&equals;"source" href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;shutterstock&period;com&sol;image-photo&sol;happy-elementary-kids-playing-together-jumping-1200999991">Shutterstock<&sol;a><&sol;span><&sol;figcaption><&sol;figure>&NewLine;<p>One program that taught children to intervene in bullying was shown to <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;onlinelibrary&period;wiley&period;com&sol;doi&sol;abs&sol;10&period;1002&sol;jcad&period;12267">increase the self-esteem of the helpers<&sol;a>&period; But experiments from social psychology show that help that benefits helpers <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;researchgate&period;net&sol;profile&sol;Jeffrey-Fisher-2&sol;publication&sol;232546326&lowbar;Recipient&lowbar;Reactions&lowbar;to&lowbar;Aid&sol;links&sol;00b4953889cccb0b0c000000&sol;Recipient-Reactions-to-Aid&period;pdf">can undermine the self-esteem of recipients<&sol;a> who cannot return the favour &lpar;for instance due to low social status&rpar;&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h2>So&comma; what should schools do&quest;<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>Examples of programs available in Australia&comma; which have been scientifically evaluated include <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;tandfonline&period;com&sol;doi&sol;abs&sol;10&period;1080&sol;01411920903420024">Friendly Schools&comma; Friendly Classrooms<&sol;a> and <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;jamanetwork&period;com&sol;journals&sol;jamapediatrics&sol;article-abstract&sol;1107694">Positive Behaviour for Learning<&sol;a>&period; Both involve creating clear expectations of behaviour throughout the school&comma; teaching and encouraging positive behaviour&comma; and improving supervision and addressing of incidents&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Both of these programs have been found to reduce bullying at school level in primary schools&period; But we still don’t know the impact on students who remain victims after the programs have been implemented&period; Even when using programs that reduce bullying at school level&comma; it is important to monitor outcomes for victims&period; Schools should follow up carefully with individual cases of bullying until they have been successfully resolved&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The main purpose of anti-bullying initiatives is to <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;sciencedirect&period;com&sol;science&sol;article&sol;abs&sol;pii&sol;S0193397313000828">protect the most vulnerable students<&sol;a>&period; When offered a new idea to address bullying&comma; schools should consider how it will affect the social standing of the students who are bullied the most&period;<&excl;-- Below is The Conversation's page counter tag&period; Please DO NOT REMOVE&period; --><img style&equals;"border&colon; none &excl;important&semi; box-shadow&colon; none &excl;important&semi; margin&colon; 0 &excl;important&semi; max-height&colon; 1px &excl;important&semi; max-width&colon; 1px &excl;important&semi; min-height&colon; 1px &excl;important&semi; min-width&colon; 1px &excl;important&semi; opacity&colon; 0 &excl;important&semi; outline&colon; none &excl;important&semi; padding&colon; 0 &excl;important&semi; text-shadow&colon; none &excl;important&semi;" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;counter&period;theconversation&period;com&sol;content&sol;156391&sol;count&period;gif&quest;distributor&equals;republish-lightbox-basic" alt&equals;"The Conversation" width&equals;"1" height&equals;"1" &sol;><&excl;-- End of code&period; If you don't see any code above&comma; please get new code from the Advanced tab after you click the republish button&period; The page counter does not collect any personal data&period; More info&colon; https&colon;&sol;&sol;theconversation&period;com&sol;republishing-guidelines --><&sol;p>&NewLine;<h6><a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;theconversation&period;com&sol;profiles&sol;karyn-healy-153841">Karyn Healy<&sol;a>&comma; Researcher&comma; <em><a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;theconversation&period;com&sol;institutions&sol;qimr-berghofer-medical-research-institute-1811">QIMR Berghofer Medical Research Institute&period; <&sol;a><&sol;em>This article is republished from <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;theconversation&period;com">The Conversation<&sol;a> under a Creative Commons license&period; Read the <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;theconversation&period;com&sol;got-no-friends-sit-on-the-buddy-bench-untested-anti-bullying-programs-may-be-missing-the-mark-156391">original article<&sol;a>&period;<&sol;h6>&NewLine;

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