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Adam Voigt’s message to students – no, you’re not special!

<div>Ok – I’m not even 100&percnt; sure that’s a word&period; But &OpenCurlyQuote;overspecialising’ sure has meaning to me&period; The concept first came to me watching the acclaimed commencement speech of American School Leader David McCullough on YouTube&period; It’s an impassioned speech full of lessons learned that can perhaps only be learned through a lifetime of working with young people – and seeing the older people they become&period; I highly recommend a trip to https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;youtube&period;com&sol;watch&quest;v&equals;&lowbar;lfxYhtf8o4 for 12 minutes that might alter your perspective on the value of being special&period;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div>Just one of McCullough’s quotes&colon;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<blockquote>&NewLine;<div><em>&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote; &&num;8230&semi;think about this&colon; even if you’re one in a million&comma; on a planet of 6&period;8 billion that<&sol;em><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div><em>means there are nearly 7&comma;000 people just like you&period; Imagine standing somewhere<&sol;em><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div><em>over there on Washington Street on Marathon Monday and watching sixty-eight<&sol;em><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div><em>hundred yous go running by&period; And consider for a moment the bigger picture&colon; your<&sol;em><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div><em>planet&comma; I’ll remind you&comma; is not the center of its solar system&comma; your solar system is not<&sol;em><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div><em>the center of its galaxy&comma; your galaxy is not the center of the universe&period; In fact&comma;<&sol;em><&sol;div>&NewLine;<div><em>astrophysicists assure us the universe has no center&semi; therefore&comma; you cannot be it&period;”<&sol;em><&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<div>So stirred was I by McCullough’s assertions and his insistence that our obsession with telling our young people how special they are is damaging&comma; that I bought his book&period; Written in the exact prose of his commencement speech&comma;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div>McCullough unpacks the thinking&comma; the meaning and the practical examples of just how our young people are being damaged by their own perceptions of their apparent uniqueness&period;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div>McCullough provokes us to wonder that if&comma; as we often espouse&comma; all of our students are special – indeed&comma; how can any of them be&period; Wouldn’t that make special &&num;8230&semi; average&quest;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div>And further&comma; if our students all believe that just by being that they are endowed with special skills&comma; rights&comma; capabilities and gifts&comma; just how prepared will they be for the real world&period; Will &OpenCurlyQuote;specialness’ win them a job at interview over<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div>20 other equally special candidates&quest; Will it save them from the sting of defeat at the swimming carnival&quest; Will it buy them extra time and funds when they can’t cover their mobile phone bill due to the plethora of selfies posted on a<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div>multitude of online platforms&quest; To all of the above&comma; the answer is clearly NO&period;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div>Being special is not only a fallacy&comma; it’s entirely unhelpful – especially in world of fellow specials&period;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div>So what is the message we’d like our students to take from us&quest; How can we develop a healthy self-esteem&comma; confidence and resilience in our students so that they go into the world ready to succeed&quest; Here’s an idea&period;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div>Firstly&comma; let’s stop telling our students that they are special&period; It’s just not true&period; So let’s stop&period;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div>How about then&comma; in special’s place&comma; we tell them they are CAPABLE&period; Sure&comma; it’s not as exciting a word as &OpenCurlyQuote;special’ but it might just exceed it in importance if we can collectively embrace it&period; Telling our students that they are capable requires something of them – it implies responsibility&period; After all&comma; don’t we want our students to go out into the world with&colon;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div>• A determination to do good things&quest;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div>• A belief in achieving their personal potential&quest;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div>• A will to make the world a better place&quest;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div>• A set of high expectations for themselves&quest;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div>• An appreciation of the value of service to others&quest;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div>&&num;8230&semi; or perhaps we’d be comfortable for them to stay at home with their parents&comma; hogging&sol;hugging the X-Box until they are 31 and just generally basking in the warm glow of their own specialness&quest;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div>Your students are special only in that they are special to you&period; But as the world becomes an increasingly global community they will find themselves to be no more special than the other 7 billion people whose Teachers thought they were special too&period; Of course&comma; not being special has nothing to do with capability&comma; with the pride to be taken in a hard day’s work and the achievement of raising their own families well&period;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div>Capability isn’t about changing the world or being Prime Minister&period; Capability is about our own unique capacity and frontiers&period; Many of our students lack the resilience to commence even the most basic of tasks for fear that they wont be the best – the special one&period; Capability isn’t about being THE best&comma; it’s about being YOUR best&period;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<div>The question is – will you start telling your students how capable they are&quest; Go on – I think you’re capable of that&excl;<&sol;div>&NewLine;

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Adam Voigt

Adam Voigt is the Founder & Director of Real Schools. Built upon years of experience as a successful Principal, Real Schools helps schools to build and sustain strong, relational School Cultures. A speaker of local and international renown, Adam has delivered a TED Talk and is the schools/education expert for The Project”.

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