Attention seeking missiles: managing challenging behaviour

<h2>Jo Lange&comma; a behavioural psychologist whose work has been of immense value to educators for many years&comma; refers to them as being Triple Ls – they’re Late&comma; they’re Loud and they’re Laughing&period; They wait until you have the &OpenCurlyQuote;audience’ sorted&comma; calm and focused until they switch on the spotlight and take centre stage&period;<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>And when these students are on stage&comma; they are world class performers&period; Of course&comma; these students don’t get paid quite like the Hugh Jackmans of the world&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;In fact&comma; they have a different currency than money … it’s eyeballs&period; The pay-off for these students for the planning&comma; effort&comma; precision timing and preparation they’ve engaged in to make this moment an award winner is the attention of those around<br &sol;>&NewLine;them&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>This presents both the first victory and the first conundrum for Teachers when it comes to effectively dealing with attention seeking students&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The victory is that you’ve identified the motivator sitting behind the behaviour&period; This is critical because no behavioural choice occurs without a motivator&period; In adults&comma; the motivator for losing weight might be fitting into the aspirational pair of expensive jeans we bought ourselves or feeling confident enough to don the swimmers on a looming beach holiday&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The motivator behind our choice to have a dinner party goes to one of our deepest needs&comma; that of being socially connected&period; Every behaviour has a motivation and you’ve just identified the need being met by the attention seekers&period; There’s gold in those eyeballs&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The conundrum is that yours are the only eyeballs you have control of in a classroom setting and there are plenty of other pairs available if you decide on suggested strategy no1 for attention seekers – ignoring them&period; It’s a good strategy&period; But it’s undermined by the other students who just can’t take their gaze away from the shenanigans on display&period; We’re going to need to get clever and a little subtle with our<br &sol;>&NewLine;strategy here&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Think again about that concept of currency&period; If attention can be measured in dollars&comma; we might consider that a student has gone to &dollar;1 worth of effort to get their attention pay-off&period; I’d contend that they’ll be disappointed if they only get 5c worth of attention&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h2>So what does that look like in practical terms&quest;<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>A teaching colleague of mine named Dave had a student enter his Year 11 Maths class and take his usual seat&period; During the Teacher’s instructions&comma; the student slowly began reaching into his school bag and retrieving clothes pegs&period; One peg at a time&comma; he attached clothes pegs to folds of skin on and around his face until he eventually built himself a mane of wooden pegs&period; Interesting move&excl; And one clearly motivated and fuelled by the giggles and sniggers of the students around him&period; My colleague ignored him&comma; but the behaviour persisted&period; He was already being well paid&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>And then Dave remembered our conversation around the currency of attention and wondered what 5c worth of attention might look like&comma; given the clear &dollar;1 of effort this student has gone to&period; He walked over to the student and stood briefly by his side &&num;8211&semi; a clever tactic in itself as being side-by-side eliminates virtually all eye contact while directing attention to the people that Dave also wishes to better engage&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>With eyes fixed on the other students in the class&comma; he gently nudged &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Pegboy” on the shoulder and said &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;That’s a pretty good impression of the Paddle Pop Lion&comma; mate&period; But I’ve got these beautiful people here that I need to teach some Maths to today&period;” before calmly continuing his lesson&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The class chuckled once more and then commenced to engage with the Teacher’s instruction again&period; Pegboy&comma; after enduring a few more painful minutes &lpar;seriously – that’s got to hurt&excl;&rpar; then began removing the pegs and returning them to his school bag&period; I asked Dave what he thought the real lesson was in the tale of Pegboy&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>He said the provision of zero attention by the Teacher was being read by Pegboy as a &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;not yet” in terms of attention and so he chose to hang in there to see if a bigger pay-off was coming than that being provided by the classroom giggles&period; But&comma; when the pay-off arrived in a rather disappointing low-key acknowledgement and calm redirection of the remaining students&comma; Dave believed the internal dialogue of Pegboy would have been something along the lines of &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Oh bugger&period; Well that was hardly worth all that trouble&period;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Hardly worth all the trouble&period; That’s a decent and effective mantra that we could all carry into our next encounter with the spotlight seekers that seem to be in almost all of our classrooms these days&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;

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Adam Voigt is the Founder & Director of Real Schools. Built upon years of experience as a successful Principal, Real Schools helps schools to build and sustain strong, relational School Cultures. A speaker of local and international renown, Adam has delivered a TED Talk and is the schools/education expert for The Project”.

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